Because if you are, that means you might be living an “normal” ordinary life, in a “routine” like the other 95% of people that keep a J.O.B. (Journey Of the Broke). I used to have this ordinary life. There’s really nothing wrong with that, IF you don’t mind struggling month-to-month, going back and forth to work, living with “quiet discontent“, you know you’re building someone ELSE’S dreams and not your own.
When I was younger and got a “stable” job. I felt comfortable for the first month or two, but then I started realizing this horrible feeling of being “stuck” with no extraordinary future and an existence with no purpose. It started to bug me so very bad, especially when I started thinking about WHY I was on this earth – “what am I here for? Certainly not to chase money and only help MYSELF?!”. I didn’t like being ordinary, or “normal” like everybody else, because I wanted a BETTER, more MEANINGFUL life, where people would actually remember me, and CARE when I died, because I made a positive impact in their life. I knew that life was not about wasting most of it WORKING, chasing money.
If you ever have this feeling in the back of your head that there has got to be a better plan for your life, but feel stuck, and don’t know where to start, it’s because you’re in a “comfort zone”. The reason you unconsciously sit and nothing about it is because Humans FEAR the UNKNOWN. You see, once you are “trained” at your new J.O.B. responsibilities, it becomes “easy” and you do not have to actually THINK anymore. It is now a habit or routine, so you feel “safe” because you know what’s going to happen next. You might not even be poor – you just have poor HABITS. Being broke is different from being POOR. Broke is temporary, Poor is a state of mind…
Now, the key to success, (or STAYING successful), is to get UNcomfortable as much as possible. You MUST get out of your “comfort zone” to learn NEW things that actually WILL create streaming residual incomes for you and your family. The wealthy CHOOSE the habit of getting uncomfortable, learning NEW things before everybody else in the world, so that they are the LEADERS, not the FOLLOWERS. They are actually ABLE to help others, serving their purpose in life. Actually the reason people are wealthy, is because they constantly think of ways to help “the masses”. (More on that on the next blog!)
A “comfort zone” is what the wealthy call an “enslavement zone”. You see, humans like to create routines so they can feel SAFE, so they KNOW what’s going to happen next – meaning “NO RISK”! Humans FEAR the unknown. This is why most choose to “do what everybody ELSE does”, being a follower, having a J.O.B., struggling month to month, being “normal”. There’s a problem with that : (unless you like to struggle with money problems):
In today’s fast-paced world, change occurs at such an alarming rate that in order to have ANY success in today’s world, you must constantly get uncomfortable. You must learn new ideas and ways of today’s business in order to remain in front of the “bubble”. This way you are always at the “right place right time” catching the waves of opportunity every single time, instead of constantly MISSING opportunities all throughout your life because you were scared of risk!
So to sum it all up:
If you stop and ask yourself these important questions, you can really start to THINK, (for yourself) instead of just “taking people’s word for it!”
– Is what I’m doing for work right now, actually going to get me to my dreams in 3 years? What about 5 years?
– If the answer is NO – then WHY would I keep doing it?
– Shouldn’t I look into something that WOULD work to get me to my dreams?
– Do I want the same results as those that are around me, and those that I listen to? (boss, parents, friends, etc.) Who is my coach? Do I want the same results as him/her?
– Or am I just doing what I was TOLD to do my whole life? Are THEY happy, healthy, and wealthy? Who TOLD me to do this? Do I want their same results? Shouldn’t I start doing what I believe in, instead of trying to be “normal” so people will “approve”?
– Shouldn’t I look for somebody that HAS what I want, and get coached by THEM, so I can get the results that THEY have?
These are very important questions to ask yourself if you want “the good life” that you always dreamed about and thought you would have when you were younger.
Now, go back and write down the answers. They will amaze you.
Then, make the obvious decision to go out and GET your dreams. Your dreams are not going to magically show up without you making the decision to get uncomfortable and CHANGE. Life doesn’t give you what you want – it gives you what you DESERVE!! Now, stop making excuses and go out there and GET it. It’s really a small easy decision to get uncomfortable until it becomes comfortable, like riding a bike! Whether it’s about making money, being healthy, being happy, or getting your free time back, not being so “busy”. Once you got it down, you never lose that skill! Then you can move on to the next one, and finally success will ease into your life, nice and cozy!
P.S. – Learning how to create streaming residual income from a home-based business was very uncomfortable for me at first. But after being unsatisfied with being busy and stressed, with no free time, I finally decided I deserved to be wealthy. I decided to force myself to learn a system to create myself some streaming income. It took me 3 months months, but now I will never have a money problem again, AND I have more free time than anybody I know, except for my mentors that told me what to do! CLICK HERE for the system that taught me how to do it. It is ridiculously powerful and life-changing – just like my wealthy friends told me it was, you’ll see.