If You Find Yourself Saying “I Have No Time”, And You’re Telling People “I’m So Busy”, Then You Owe It To Yourself To Pay Attention, Right Now
It was freakin’ hopeless…
I remember constantly telling everyone, “Damn. I don’t have time to hang out this week” and I’m “just super super busy”. I was making that money… (Too busy to get any quality time with friends and family).
I needed to break that subconscious pattern before another year passed by, or I would continue missing the more important things in my life, like my kids growing up.
Have you ever realized?
Have you said to yourself, “I wish I could stay home today”, or have you said to your family “no I can’t go with you guys, I gotta work” recently?
Most likely, you thought about it or even said it today, wishing you were at home relaxing or traveling the world, experiencing life with your friends or family.
When I was running around chasing money like a chicken with it’s head cut off, between my business and home life, I would constantly (and unconsciously) make excuses to everyone I cared about.
After a few years quickly passed by, as realized I missed what I believe are the most important years of my kids’ lives – (Ages 2-8) – and I finally got tired of being “busy” all the time. Enough was enough.
I was frustrated and began exploring ideas on how to achieve this whole “financial freedom” thing that they talk about in all the wealth and business books I was reading.
The truth is that it financial freedom is a “catchy phrase” for most, and it is quite elusive for 98% of people. Only 2% will actually ever open their mind for that quality of life.
Finally, after I asked a wealthy mentor of mine how he did it, he sat me down and started asking me mind-opening questions…
Then he had me admit…
“Didn’t you just say you value your freedom and want to be around your kids, and you want to have more time for traveling the world with friends and family?”
I said, “yep”.
He then asked, “OK, but you continue to spend all of your time into building a traditional business that keeps you busy, even though it’s keeping you away from the things that matter most to you?”
I didn’t say anything…
Then the real one, “OK, now what kind of person would that be – who invests all of their spare time into things that make them busier, but won’t FIND the time to build something that will get them FREE, so he can get back to what is most important?
I had to admit – “Not a very smart or courageous one“.
This is precisely why it is paramount to listen to successful people that have the results you want in your life. This mentor of mine is always present with his family, traveling, and impacting the world to leave it a better place. I wanted a life like his.
I needed someone to be real with me, to help me realize the pattern I was living.
But seriously, how do you even begin? First you have to drop the ego and admit that things must change, and then you can start with these…
Here’s 5 Things I’ve Learned To Break The Subconscious Patterns (And Reality) Of “I’m So Busy”
- Teach-ability Index:
I had to admit I didn’t know it all, or I would have had the results I wanted already…
You must be teach-able and admit that you’re not where you want to be, to be able to break your old patterns, so you can GROW new patterns. You must learn what you didn’t know before, and you must grow into the person you’ve never BEEN before, to get what you’ve never had before!
- Watch Out For Being “Too Smart For Your Own Good”:
Being “smarter than everyone” can actually harm you and your income if you are a professional. It is very hard to learn anything new if you’re already too smart for your own good.On top of that, as small business owners, we tend to have the “if you want it done right, you gotta do it yourself” mentality.
Many times, we don’t trust anyone else to do the job “just right”.We all think we’re so smart…. but only at first! Sooner or later we realize that the more skilled we become, the less we are able to duplicate ourselves to put someone in our place in case we don’t feel like working that day.
Once we can let go and trust people to do their job or follow a system, we can eventually create ourselves some time freedom. Think franchising and duplication – which brings us to…
- Have A SYSTEM Running Your Business: – (Not YOU running the business):
Have you ever seen the wealthy people working hard indoors, building the businesses all by themselves?
No.If you think about McDonald’s:
They didn’t make the best burgers – They made the best system! It’s a SYSTEM running their business.They made it extremely simple, where any high school dropout can run the building, as long as they follow the manual/system. This way, we can have people in place that are trained to follow a system and know what to do, even when we’re not there, so we no longer have to be there, holding their hands, and running the business ourselves.
This means we are able to duplicate our efforts, for leveraged, residual income. McDonald’s owner is actually dead now, but his legacy lives on, and his family still collects the checks! You want to live a legacy? This is how powerful a system can be!
- Build A TEAM:
When you have built a team that can follow a system, you will have leveraged, recurring income. The term “self-made millionaire” was never true, or even possible.Nobody has ever made a million dollars by themselves. They would not have the time. Anyone who tries it, dies trying, because that is what’s called LINEAR income. Linear income means, if you stop working, you stop getting paid.You will work forever in a linear equation, because you are collecting 100% of only ONE person’s efforts – your own – instead of having leverage.
Now if you have a team, and you’re collecting 5% of 100 people’s efforts, well now you have leverage in business – meaning leveraged time, effort, and income.
- Course Correcting Questions: (Thinking Five Years Out):
– Are you 100% satisfied with what you’re doing currently?
– What do you want your life to be like?
– If you keep doing what you’re doing for the next 4-5 years, are you going to be in a place of financial or time freedom?
Now, if what you are doing currently isn’t working as great as you thought it would, but you don’t change your language patterns of “I’m so busy” and make time to create change, nothing will change.
You will still end up with a lack of money or time next year, and your situation will most likely even get worse. The year after that will also be the same or worse, unless you make a serious change in your decisions, habits, and patterns, and where you invest your time.
However, if you make the time for something that will eventually allow you to be UN-busy, then you will create change for yourself.
What is important to you?
Your health? Freedom? Money? Abundance? Giving Back? Impacting the world and making a difference?
If you said yes to any of these, I invite and expose you to a proven plan, where you could work SMART for the next 4-5 years,
following a step-by-step system that will put you in a place of financial (and TIME) freedom.
So would you even be open to taking an educated look?
If the answer is “yes”, then click right now to watch this “Make Money While You Sleep” webinar. It may be the major paradigm shift you needed to create change, right at the right time.
Remember, the best way to predict your future is to CREATE it, and life doesn’t give you what you want.
It gives you what you deserve!
Much Love, talk soon,
The World Is Yours, M!