Marc Frank Montoya – Mister Contrary

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  • Why you must NOT be addicted to money.

    Why you must NOT be addicted to money.

    Being “addicted to money” makes you weak, (like being addicted to CRACK).

    Addicted to moneyOk, just hang with me here because this one’s gonna hit different!

    Yeah I said it…

    Being “addicted to” or being “needy” of something, comes from a place of weakness, and you will have absolutely no control over it unless you discover how to use it…

    Now, think about the subject of MONEY:

    You’re not addicted to it, are you?!

    I’m sure you’ve seen the behavior of “crackheads”, who are addicted to crack:

    They are needy and powerless.

    They genuinely think they “need more crack” just to survive, (but somehow just don’t seem to realize it).

    Likewise, most people think they “need their money“… but what they fail to realize it that they act “needy” with it.

    Now, that may sound crazy, but it’s the truth.

    You may disagree at first, and this post may make you uncomfortable, but when you begin to understand the energy of money and laws of attraction, you will discover these principles of power, and ultimately, gravitate toward your freedom.

    Holding On Too Tight Will Hurt You

    Being in a “needy” state of mind makes people weak… almost hopeless.

    I remember back in the day feeling broke. I would hold on too tightly to my money, thinking I “needed” it.

    I was not willing to save it, “risk” it, invest it or learn how to generate passive income with it.

    This kept me living a month-to-month lifestyle, playing it “safe”, working for a boss for the next 5 years. I would have worked hard for 45 years and retired with nothing.

    Luckily, I met the right people and read the right books that set me straight…

    If you are not willing to purchase things of value, then you are resisting the very thing you’re trying to create.

    Most people, as soon as they get any spare time or money, they immediately “use it all up”, (like crackheads, lol!)

    People trade their money for material things that do not appreciate in value. The very second you get our hands on money, you blow it on liabilities (instead of assets).

     So, Are YOU Addicted To Money? Time?

    Subconscious patterns MarcFrankMontoya dot comDo you always feel “busy”?

    Are you too busy to learn how to create yourself some freedom

    Have you ever said to one of your friends, “Shoot, I’d love to invest in a business, but I don’t have the money”, or “yeah I want that ___, but don’t have that kind of money” or “yeah I wish I could start a ____, but I’m so BUSY, I don’t have the TIME to do it”?

    You see, it’s not that we don’t have the money (or time). The real question is – what do we DO with the money once we get it?

    Do you blow it on entertainment, beer, cigarettes, paying bills/liabilities, and paying everybody ELSE (including the government, paying our TAXES) before paying ourselves?

    When there’s none left at the end of the month, it’s almost a panic, as if we are addicted to money!

    One thing I have noticed on my journey, is that successful people don’t “find” the time to be wealthy and free – They MAKE the time to be free because it is important to them!

    So…

    What do you do with your spare TIME?

    Do you spend more time planning a BBQ or buying Christmas gifts than you do planning your own future?

    When it comes to making money, are you scared to “sell” somebody something they need?

    Are you scared to “ask for” or (trade) the money in exchange for something they already want for themselves

    Are you so afraid of loss or rejection, trying so hard to protect your own self image, that you never even try to help people get what they want?

    Are you afraid of the word “no”, or afraid of losing money?

    How to STOP being addicted to MONEY, so you can ATTRACT.

    Have you ever noticed how crackheads “chase” crack, and NEVER seem to get enough of it?

    So goes a law of success for people who “need it”. 

    They are addicted to money, so success is not sustainable.

    If you ever want to attract money with an abundance mentality, you must believe that it will come back ten fold if you send it OUT there to be able to help others get what they want.

    When I offer someone a solution, I know that I am doing them a service.

    I am helping others, coming from a place of value.

    I know that the solution I have is worth way more than the money they hold on so tight to.

    You can not have the “needy” energy, caring about their answer – (whether they say yes or no).

    People feel the energy if they think you “need” to make a sale or are trying too hard to sell them something.

    The crazy thing is: People love to buy stuff that they need and want. They just don’t like to be “sold” on things!

    So if what you have is more valuable to them than the money they desperately cling to, they will trade their  money for that thing that is more valuable to them.

    Do You “need” Money, Or Do You DESERVE Money?

    You must also take the necessary daily disciplined ACTION to deserve  more money in your life, using the law of numbers and averages.

    Life does NOT give you what you “need” – It gives you what you DESERVE.

    Most people settle into a comfort zone, and “take what life gives them”. They do the minimum, watch TV in their spare time, and become victims of the future, rather than creating their own future with the extra time they have.

    You must be willing to make huge sacrifices and do what others aren’t willing to do, to create what they’ll never have.

    There are two types of people in this world:  The glass is either have empty and half full.

    One person says, “I don’t have any money, so I can’t change my circumstances”.

    The other one says, “I don’t have any money, so I must make a change, to change my circumstances”.

    You must learn to save up and be able to “let go” of your money and invest it into a business asset, rather than simply use it on liabilities every month.

    A liability is something that takes money OUT of your pocket. An asset is something that will eventually put money INTO your pocket.

    Are you willing to skip a Starbucks coffee every day for a month or two to be able to save the money to start your own home business?

    Are you willing to eat Ramen Noodles for a year if you have to, so you can save that money to invest in something?

    If you fear “losing money”, than you will be a loser, because, like the crackhead, you will continue to blow it on the “instant gratification”.

    When you decide to stop being addicted to money and invest it into YOURSELF, your future will begin to change, right before your eyes.

    If you don’t know where to start,  contact us.

    We can expose you to faster moving business ideas/vehicles/assets.

    You have everything to gain, and nothing to lose. The only risk, is not taking the risk at all. Are you addicted to money?

    The World Is Yours, M!

  • 10 Reasons For Your Long Term Financial Struggle – (A.I.R.)!

    10 Reasons For Your Long Term Financial Struggle – (A.I.R.)!

    If you’ve been struggling, or simply not satisfied with your results, then you must change your habits to create change.

    Uh oH! THIS MAY HURT!
    Here are 10 reasons that cause painful, long term, financial struggle, and why you MUST Get Rid Of AIR,
    (Automatic Income Reducers!), NOW  !!!

    I’m going to give you a list. If you follow my directions, you will gradually see positive change in your life!

    You may not enjoy hearing some of these, because it may be “uncomfortable” for you to “sacrifice”, but these are most likely the exact things keeping you from achieving your own big dreams and freedoms.You don't need A.I.R.

    #1. Your TV
    Get RID of it! Painful? Hmmm you sure aren’t going to miss anything, I GUARANTEE it.

    You can turn it back on in 10 or 15 years and the SAME EXACT shows will still be on, full of negativity. The news, stabbings, shootings, people robbing each other, wheel of fortune, etc.!

    Did you know that the average kid spends 20,000 hours watching TV before they even turn 18?

    The sad part is: It only takes 10,000 hours to gain “specialized skills” at something to be PROFESSIONAL at it! What a shame!

    Get rid of “Dancing With The Stars” or whatever you’re watching, and pick up a Self-Development or Wealth Book instead!

    #2. Negative Whiny Broke Friends
    If you notice, struggling people talk about THINGS and OTHER PEOPLE. They also complain a lot. Have you ever noticed how they attract other people to waste time with them, whining and complaining?

    Most people waste valuable time and money on things that do not help their growth or self-development.

    People attract people like themselves, so you must find POSITIVE people that love to talk about IDEAS and the FUTURE, constantly working on THEMSELVES!

    Hint: Usually these people are wealthy! Success leaves clues!

    Now that you know, observe, and you’ll see exactly what I’m talking about.

    I’m not saying you have to “get rid” of your friends or family. I’m just saying you don’t have to hang around them as much if you’re actually trying to get out there and live an extraordinary life!

    Remember: You ARE who you hang around! If you hang around people that don’t build for their future, going nowhere, (who just go to work and back, then come home, plop on the couch, drink beer and watch TV), you’re going to go there too!

    #3. The Bar
    It makes me laugh when I hear so many people crying “Geez I don’t have the money!”, but then I observe them wasting their life in front of the TV, playing Xbox, and at the bar spending $60 on their friends!

    Again – if you hang around people that waste money drinking at the bar, you’re gonna do the same.

    We usually don’t notice the smaller increments of money coming out of our pockets daily, (and never break down or budget), so we don’t understand that it adds up!

    $80 -$160 on the weekends adds up to you not being able to invest any money into any assets!

    #4. Football, Basketball, Hockey games, Movies, etc.
    Yeah I said it! You heard me right! I know this to be true, from personal experience.

    If you want to watch football and reality shows more than you want success, then there you go.

    Here’s my saying: “Why sit on the sidelines, spending your hard-earned money to watch other people live THEIR dreams, instead of investing the practice and training into YOURSELF to achieve YOUR OWN dreams!”

    Plus, read this, it may piss you off!

    #5. Video Games
    Seriously? I can see if you’re 12 years old, but c’mon now. Time to create a future and MAN UP.

    If someone told you that you could be a Multi-Millionaire in 5 years by reading 2-3 hours a day of the right Wealth or Leadership books, how many of you would make that change?

    How bad do you want it?

    Wasting hours and hours and hours getting good at things that do absolutely nothing for your future will be PAINFUL in the long run.

    The information is there for your taking. The difference between RICH and POOR has everything to do with the CHOICES you make with what you do with your spare time!

    Work harder on yourself than you do at a “game” or your job, and watch what happens in 5 years.

    10 reasons for failure!
    Click to ENLARGE! Pay attention!

    #6. The Couch
    When you exercise and get your blood pumping correctly through your body, you are able to think more clearly throughout the day.

    If you do not exercise in the morning, you will notice fatigue, a lack of clarity, and weak thoughts.

    How can you expect to change your life for the better if you don’t have any energy or the mood to do so?

    The number one reason for bankruptcy today is medical bills. Get your exercise with a real beneficial hobby!

    #7. Disgustingly Unhealthy Processed Food
    Bad eating habits make you fat, cause fatigue, cause chemical imbalance, and duplicate more free radical damage to the cells in your body, resulting in bad cellular communication/dis-ease.

    If you don’t have the energy or mind clarity you need to thrust forward in your life, you’re going to be mediocre/normal – a statistic.

    Don’t just listen to me, check the statistics. You do not want that lifestyle, unless you like Heart Disease and Cancer.

    Now on the other hand, if you consume 7-13 raw servings of fruits and vegetables every day as a lifestyle, you would remove yourself from every disease category by at least 30%.

    Ask yourself this question: What do I have if I don’t have my HEALTH?

    What’s the point of spending time chasing money at a job to make car payments and things, if you don’t invest in our own health, and then develop health issues down the road?

    Again, the #1 reason for bankruptcy today is DOCTOR BILLS caused from bad nutrition. Marinate on it.

    #8. New Cars
    Yep! Most people love to “act” or LOOK successful, keeping up with the Jones’, but in reality they are just in DEBT, like the other 98%.

    If you would want any chance at financial freedom, you must have the smarts to invest time and money into ASSETS that appreciate.

    A car is a huge liability that depreciates extremely fast. Same as your TV and other toys. Don’t do linear work to pay for liabilities. Your assets should pay for the toys, so you don’t have to.

    If you invest that same money and time into YOURSELF, reading books, attending seminars, courses, and trainings to increase your Financial IQ,  you’ll be able to buy many many cars and actually own them outright, 5-7 years later, with a bunch of leveraged income coming in, but NO BILLS.

    #9. FACEBOOK
    You might be one of the 1,000,000,000 people who waste hours and hours on Facebook, not even making any money doing it!

    Again, the difference between rich and poor people, is what they do in their SPARE TIME. Imagine how much money you would make if you invested that same “FB” time into yourself to learn how to build a home business and generate more income for your family using social media.

    Then you would be valuable to others, teaching other people how to make money from their home business using Facebook, (and Youtube, Twitter, etc).

    I’m not saying it’s easy, but it’s that simple, and it’s WORTH IT.

    Today, you can learn how to build a 6-figure income with your laptop, from anywhere in the world, like many many others are doing.

    #10. Settling with a J.O.B. :
    We are programmed to spend the first 25 years of our life “learning”, and then spend the next 40 years WORKING, never really getting LIVE.

    Courageous hard working entrepreneurs don’t have to do that. By using faster smarter business vehicles, you can condense that 40 years of work into 4 or 5 years of work, to be done working.

    Then, you can actually get to LIVE, (with energy), the next 50 years, traveling, being outdoors experiencing the world, contributing, and spending more quality time with loved ones).

    As an employee, you are heavily taxed (penalized) for not being a business owner. Employees have no say in what they pay in taxes. Only business owners have tax benefits, and “it’s not what you MAKE, it’s what you KEEP!”.

    You can never achieve wealth if you don’t learn how to get your tax burden down to a legal minimum. The way to do this is to START YOUR OWN HOME-BASED BUSINESS!

    Today you can literally start your own business with your home computer for generally under $2000, and immediately have write-offs (phone, computer, mileage, etc.), saving you thousands or even tens of thousands of dollars.

    What was that?

    YES. As an employee, you’re right now losing (at least) between $2,000 to $10,000/year to taxes alone by not having a home business with tax benefits.

    Be COURAGEOUS, take risks, and get DISCIPLINED. Then watch your life transform…

    If you’d like to take action to explore more ideas or strategies, contact us here and tell me your story!
    The world is yours, MFM.

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